I've been waiting for today for years. I didn't know how I was going to get to this place, but after I accidentally got pregnant with my daughter after 8 years of infertility, I dreamed I would get pregnant "someday with the right father." My daughter will be 11 in 2 weeks and I never dreamed it would be this long. But here I am, beginning lupron shots today to prepare for IVF with egg donation-expected transfer date of January 29th. I'm frightened that it won't work more than anything else. How does one focus on not stressing out?